Friday, April 22, 2011

Where Do I Know You From?

So lets say you’re a curious guy. Have messed around a couple times with guys but in general your gayness lives in your head.  You’re not a total basket case so u sorta eyeball guys around.  Even your friends to some degree.  There’s a dude who you sorta got a thing for. Wonder what it would be like to do the dirty with him.  But he’s straight so it’s just a fantasy.  Till one day your cruising gay porn and his naked ass shows up on a gay website doing a solo JO session.  This actually happened to one of my long time readers.  So.  What do you do? REMEMER – you’re married and heavily DL.  How do you approach it…if at all.

23 comments:

  1. I'd have to at least tell him I saw him on some web site and he was hot. Then maybe tell him I'd like to do the same thing but I'm too scared of someone I know seeing me. I'd leave the next step up to him.

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  2. He could be gay-4-pay and supplementing his income with a little moonlighting. Still worth mentioning it though.

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  3. If you know him well enough to talk to him...what if it is a twin brother and not him?

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  4. I think we all assume the internet is so big and that there are so many people on the internet, and we really don't know any of them, that the internet is totally safe and anonymous. So, my guess is that this guy who's on the web didn't think he'd ever be seen by anyone he actually knew, and would be horrified to be outed.

    If the reader were going to go after him, I'm not sure starting the conversation with "Hey, I saw you jacking off on the internet," would do anything but make the guy freak out. Not a good plan to get into his pants.

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  5. Don't use the video just the knowledge. So the reader knows that his advances might be accepted now. Don't boink him with "hey dude saw your video and loved it!" Dumb! He might only be into "doing it" online.

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  6. Discretion is always key in this type of situation. Keep your mouth shut, but make sure your friend sees the bulge in your crotch...and let him make the first move :-)

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  7. The tall guy looks like Shane Keough, Jeana's son, of the original OC Housewives cast.

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  8. ... or Channing Tatum?

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  9. Seems like a big risk 2 take. I mean what if it wasn't him? How could you be sure?

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  10. Scott - Too close to home......watch the video and fantasize about him all you want, but don't touch. If were to ever get caught and his indiscretions blow up in his face, your reader's name could come out in the marital chaos that ensues. And that's assuming he IS gay.

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  11. So you both hook up, you both do the dirty and cum. Then what...?
    Artful1

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  12. Not a great deal to pursue this. If both are as closeted as you say than the celebrity status confirmed by seeing the video could be pretty horrifying and uncomfortable. For me personally, it is amazing how tight all these circles are and it does amaze me how often I'll meet guys under very bi and straight circumstances.

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  13. do it ass backward, start off by asking the guy if he knows how to make some money.... then work from there.

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  14. hmmm....how good of friends are they? i would think the keys lies there. if you're casual acquaintances - i think not. if you've tossed back some brews together and have already had a few discussions about sex, maybe you could find a way to approach it. i mean, come on - two guys who are friends should be able to admit they whack off...one just happened to be doing it on camera; so what? i'm amazed at how many guys photograph thier boners, or pics of themselves stroking one out. so you can't automatically assume he's gay...i think you'd be surprised how many WOMEN enjoy watching a guy get his rocks off and frequent those sights. after all - how many websites do you see that advertise str8 dudes jacking off for the ladies?
    good buds should be able to discuss whacking off...extending it a little further by asking "would you ever jack with a guy?" shouldn't send anyone into a tailspin. (even if the answer is no) he'd probably end his answer with "would you?"
    now whose ass is hanging on the 50-yard line? ;-)

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  15. If you were to see the guy again. You could say, I saw this blog on the internet, and watch his face for a reaction. He knows what a blog is. If he looks shocked, put him at ease, and say, man, it was cool and must have been all pleasure. That is an opening line and it's honest. If he wants to respond, he will. If he asks particulars of you, and you feel uncomfortable, say, it was just something. There's nothing wrong with pleasure, is there? If he doesn't reply, then, let it go and move on to something else. Like the weather.
    Someone, at one time must have said, it is better to venture than to wonder.
    bj.

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  16. You're asking a predominantly gay readership how they would handle this situation? Scott, fast forward a few years... they've all pushed the envelope and done what a straight guy on the DL would never do... They went for it.

    BTW - good game tonight. Break out the brooms. I sense a sweep.

    BosGuy

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  17. Not exactly the same scenario, but I found a few nude pics of one of my coworkers. He went through a divorce, and his ex wife posted some of his pictures on the net. I want to tell him, but if I do he's going to know of my "other interests".

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  18. I looked up "DL" in the Urban Dictionary (I'm a little behind the times.) Oh okay, makes sense. The dictionary also suggests: "buy dl mugs, tshirts and magnets." Rick (SEA)

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  19. For REDTEX 12.07am
    You could say, that someone told you that your picture was up there, or you could say, that someone said, check out this site, or you found it by mistake, or you want to be a porn star, or someone wanted too see how liberal you are, and would you personally post.
    Did his wife put it on a gay male site? Wonder why she would do that? Maybe he came out to her.
    bj.
    p.s. Must say, this is interesting. What does one do?

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  20. Uh, there are plenty of places online that have pictures of naked men but aren't *explicitly* "gay male sites." I mean, I have a tumblr that's full of naked guys, but it's not technically a gay male site since I run it.

    I have plenty of gay male followers though. If I decided to post a picture of my guy then plenty of gay men might end up seeing it. *shrug*

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  21. Here's one. Yesterday, online, the Advocate.com The Fireman's Calendar. The calendar had been canceled a few years ago. One of the fireman was in a porn movie. Someone recognized the fireman, turned him in and bingo, no more calendar. Sad but true.
    bj.
    p.s. As of that article, I will bet that movie is in big demand.

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  22. I think most of you are forgetting the most important thing: YOU are ALSO on the DL. ONLY the scenario where you are really comfortable with the guy should you even get close to the situation. Scott, if you want the words to start the conversation, in that scenario, I'd go with the "I gotta ask you something really secret - do you think you could keep a personal secret about me, even if it was bad..." tack. If you get anything but a very comforting "yes," beg out of the conversation.

    Studpuddle

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