Monday, May 2, 2011

Massage – Opening Pit Stop For The Curious Guy

I had a guy write in recently about getting massaged from a guy. A massage from a guy is a great way to kinda get your feet wet.  You’re naked. A dude is touching you. Who the fuck knows how your dick is gonna react but if you bone up it’s like “aw shit” but you don’t really feel like you done something wrong.  So I’m not gonna get into this cuz I’ve done that before.  I’d like to hear from guys who’ve tried this like I have.  What happened? Did it go too far? Did it go far enough? How did you get it to cross the line into sex if that’s what you wanted?  Stuff like that.
Thanks boys.

42 comments:

  1. You're gonna get hard no matter what during a massage. I do.

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  2. Actually my experience happened a little backwards. I used to get sports massage (including massage and stretching) at the PE office in college. The massage therapist was male and I always got hard. Awkward at first but then no big deal. That helped confirmed what I already knew about my attraction to men. I was covered with a towel but it used to fall off and my rod was on display to whoever happened to be in the room. Always wondered if the guy planned it that way. But those massages led to my experimenting with men.

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  3. My first massage ever was selected out of an alternative news paper in Kansas City. I went to his house and he asked me to strip off all my clothes and lie on my stomach on the table. He massaged me really well all over my back side and the asked me to turn over. I definitely was all boned up. He said "Oh my, I see you have another swollen muscle, would you like for me to massage it too"? And he did. Went back many times, after the second time things progressed to sucking and me massaging him. Think I will call him this morning. Keep up the good work Scott. Glad you're back!

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  4. I just started reading your blog recently and love it. I too am married but very curious. I'd like to try a massage (from a man). Could you tell me how you arrange it and what happened and what to expect and what not to expect? This blog is the only resource I have and there's nothing really like it on the web. At least nothing that I believe/trust like yours.

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  5. I have had mutual naked massage with other guys. Neither of us professional but have some skill with our hands. One massage trade was with a LMT who gave me directions. You can do a google search for "male for male massage" --- that's what I did on one of my trips to San Francisco. I found a guy who was both a great masseur and very sensual. He did his great work with both of us naked and encouraged me to touch.

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  6. I'm a trained, non-licensed masseuse. I can safely say that well over 50% of my clientele are married men from local ads. The most important thing to them is a safe, relaxing environment. Generally the first session is about losing their inhibitions and giving them a 'happy ending'. If they return it's likely you can get them to whatever you want becasue they want it too. Most will suck my dick, and many will respond positively to an anal massage. I enjoy the conquest, and being compensated for it.

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  7. My first massage was 2 months ago. My wife urged to go after complaining for weeks about a pulled muscle in my lower back. I found a guy w/ a legit ad on a gay website. I booked it. He was very professional and very good. He obviously feels it's his career. I just loved the feeling and boned up. I went back again, same thing. 3rd time when he got really close working my shoulders I started to explore his legs and work my way up. He didn't seem to mind. He let me feel him up all over and did his job. When he worked my neck he was seated over me and we did some hot gentle kissing. I got more heated on #4, but he never touched my cock. I love massage now.

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  8. Frank in Austin TexasMay 2, 2011 at 8:54 AM

    First massage was fron a highly reccommended gay guy. I am gay and was scared that I would embarrass myself and I did. I appologized for what I considered an indiscretion and he assured me that it was perfectly normal and not to worry. He said he had seen and experienced it all and was a total professional. I relaxed and enjoyed his hands working the stress from my body, though my erection never subsided.
    He was there to do a job, not to have sex, and I appreciated is professionalism though I would have done him in a heartbeat. He has moved from Austin and I have not found anyone who can work miracles like he could.
    Erections happen, all men know that, so don't worry or wonder what the masseuse might think. If he's a professional, it's no big deal.

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  9. anon 7:55 - There a lot of yahoo groups in various cities (I host one in Pittsburgh) that connect men to share massage. The link is to one that is nationwide.

    http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/m4mbodywork/

    Craigslist is also a good resource. As for expectations, it can be whatever you want. Just ask in advance. Do you want to be nude (or covered, or in your underwear)? Do you want the guy giving the massage to be nude (or in a jock seems popular)? Do you want to exchange or just get a massage? Do you want to touch the guy giving the massage? What is off limits (prostate massage)? Do you want a 'happy ending' -and how - j/o or oral?

    Just be clear about what you want and don't want.

    Mark from Pittsburgh

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    1. Hi Mark, I'm going to be traveling to Pittsburgh soon and would love to set up some trades, could you share the link to your local yahoo group for trading?

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  10. I learned to give massages in nursing school and was given the title "Golden Hands" Massage can be so hot and sexy and is wonderful foreplay. But just one correction guys...a masseuse is a woman and a masseur is a man...this difference can make a big difference when you decide to get that massage. Mark

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  11. Scott, like you need lessons on seduction. That's a laugh! You got the attitude down - now get the look down. It's all in the eyes (I got something you want, boy) and the sneering mouth (I know you want this fucker, boy). It will go as far as you want it to go. No need to say a word, and no need to tip more than usual. Do it right and it will be his pleasure...AND, he'll be back for more!

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  12. anon 755 marks got it pretty much right. mine came from an ad on cl. dont b surprised if yor scared shitless. let the massage guy take the lead. he prob knows y yor there anyways. my buddy jeff offers the advanced class lol. if u go 2 him 4 a massage prepare 2 have the back of yor throat massaged as well lol.

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  13. I agree with Anonymous @ 8:29 AM. The difficult thing with a straight man is getting him somewhere (your place, his hotel) where he feels comfortable. After that it's relatively easy. I have a married guy who comes by about every other month for the sole purpose of sucking me. He doesn't want anything in return. I haven't gotten him to drink from the tap yet but I think that's just a few sessions away.

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  14. You have to ask yourself, "Why am I going for a massage?" If it is because, indeed, your back or legs are sore, knots, etc... then a massage is an exceptional means to get relief. If all you want is to get your ball drained, please go elsewhere.

    And an ETHICAL, Certified and licensed massage therapist, I do not cross that line with any client. Yes; there is touching, but the client is ALWAYS under draping, even during a Lomi Lomi session with minimal draping. Erections happen; as a therapist, you just ignore them.

    Generally, anyone advertising "Massage with 'Happy Ending'" is nothing more than a glorified rent boy.

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  15. I think I would like a glorified rent boy.

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  16. While serving with the military in Thailand, going with my buddy for a Sunday massage was a special treat. Massage was fantastic but the Happy "Endings will always be remembered. Just serving my country. hal

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  17. I used to work at an upscale salon. Most of my customers were women. One day a very handsome, well built contruction worker came in as a result of his wife giving him a gift certificate for Father's Day. I was happy to work on him though rules require he be covered the entire time. At the conclusion of the massage he asked if he could stay in the room a few minutes to "crank one out". I said "no problem". I stood outside the door and a couple minutes later I heard muffled tribal grunts. A few minutes later he emerged from the room fully clothed with a sheepish smile on his face saying "thanks, I really needed that".

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  18. Hey Scott,
    I fell in love with the love of my life one year after I got married. We're still friends, but he has been in a committed relationship with another guy for over 15 years now. It all started with a massage. He was a few years younger than me and would spend time with my wife and me. One night my wife had gone to bed early and we started off with the neck and shoulders and eventually we got naked on the floor of the living room. He massaged my back, ass and legs and when I turned over I was hard as a rock and dripping precum. We didn't touch each other that night, I think because we were both afraid my wife would wake up and walk in on us. Thankfully she was a heavy sleeper. But we continued to use the massage as an excuse to get naked together and eventually it led to me sucking his cock and so on and so on. We would find any excuse to be alone and it always led to fooling around. He had the sweetest tasting cum. We have hooked up over the years a few times and when we get together it's like no time has passed and we just fall into bed together. We eventually stopped using the massage as a pretext, but kept giving each other massages because we just loved touching each other. I could really use a massage right now.

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  19. Massage is the way I got started too. Just remember to tell masseuse to use non-scented oils so the wife doesn't smell you when you get home.

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  20. I'm a gay male with a lust for straight men. This blog is like an avalanche of wet dreams!

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  21. I got started fooling around with other guys through erotic massage, too. Just had a massage last Friday and the masseur fucked me - first when I was on my stomach, then when I was on my back (and my legs were on my shoulders). After the massage, I ate his ass out and fucked him a little. Good times!

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  22. Notice that the guy giving the massage does not have an erection, yet.

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  23. I bone up every time I get a massage. It just happens. Reactions have ranged to "Don't worry about it." to the guy handing me a towel saying "I'll be back in ten minutes." to one guy telling me to "get out." Then, lo and behold! I tell one to expect it and not only does he smile when he sees it, he asked me if I wanted him "to take care of it."
    That one moved to another city and I thought I was fucked, having to start all over again. I found the current guy who is liscensed to massage Muscular Dystrophy patients. Again I was very up front and warned him I always get a hard-on with massage. He too "took care of it" and then asked at the end if there was anything about the massage I did not like.
    Most states have laws against this kind of thing because they deem it prositution - but, the key (according to my massuer) is to ensure you do not ask for a handjob and especially do not offer to pay extra for one. You can ask subtly "Can you give me a complete massage that relieves ALL tension?" A nice tip afterward is appropriate, though...

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    1. Good tip, i will try that...if i can get the nerve to

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  24. I especially love this post! Massage has been my way in with straight guys since high school! I developed a great technique and feel I have a very natural ability to really hone in on the knots and love to work them out... and the guys always love it. I roomed with a guy that I was very into, who was an LMT. I used that as my excuse to constantly rub him down, for him to give me pointers. It eventually got to the point where he'd be at my computer, I'd walk up behind him, rub his shoulders for a few seconds then just tug on his shirt and he'd pull it off and I'd get the oil. He taught me a technique with the hip socket that was absolutely incredible, when he first did it to me, I had no idea that I even had tension there and it was amazing. At Burning Man, I ended up massaging these two straight guys. Kenny asked his friend Eric for a massage (he'd dislocated his shoulder 10 times) and Eric helped him out. I got behind Eric and starting rubbing him... he got so caught up in my massage he was failing his friend... and eventually I just swapped to do Kenny as well. The next day, they had me work on them in their camper with oil. Eric's back had knots like I'd never felt due to all of the dislocations. Eric was admittedly curious and when I worked on his hip socket (essentially rubbing the side of his glut) he loved it so much that he was making sounds like I was jerking him off... so much so that Kenny came over (to mist us with lavender water, as his cover) to see what I was doing. Massage is an incredible way to break down the wall of touching another guy and having him not only comfortable with it, but that he learns to love it (if you're good enough). The first 3 way I did with a straight couple, I used massage as a way to break the ice and help things move along.

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  25. While traveling in India, I was at a Sheraton and went down to the health spa. The guy who was showing me around the facility was very cute and when I found out that he was the masseur, I jumped on it. I was under the sheet, wearing my boxer briefs, and he started working on my legs and I was semi-hard. When he lifted the sheet to move up more, he saw I was wearing underwear and said "Let's open you up" as he pulled them off me. My semi-hard cock flopped out and there was this moment of silence for both of us. I'm obviously very nervous about him seeing it, but that quickly changed as he told me how big and manly it was. He seemed so interested in looking at it (which made it harder) that I told him "You can touch it if you want" ... things went from there, he blew and jerked me... I came back the next night and had more of the same and also blew him. I had no idea what to tip for that... the price was already so low (only like $6USD) that when I tipped him $30USD he nearly fell over. When I left the second night, he said "I will not forget you, sir."

    Massage has been my way into soooo many great, friendly relationships. One of them was a guy who loved getting massages and we ended up in a friendship where I would just sit next to him and put my hand up his shirt and he just kept talking like nothing happened. I'd tell him how much I loved his back/pecs/arms/etc and he LOVED to be complimented because he worked out 4-5 days a week for that body and wasn't getting as much attention as he wanted. He slept at my place a few times in bed with me and when I asked if I he minded if I cuddled with him, he said he didn't mind. At first I was VERY nervous about my erection coming anywhere near him, but I reached a point where I just didn't give a fuck if he knew I was erect (I'd walk around with an erection after massaging him, etc) so I just went for it and did a full spoon with my erect dick pressed into his ass. He got turned on too, and when he thought I was asleep (I pretty much was) he started jerking next to me in bed. Even though he's since gotten married and had 3 kids, and I've moved to SF... my storyline with him is not done. I know that when he comes to visit, we'll cuddle and likely end up doing much more.

    Sorry this is so long, but I love this topic!

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  26. I've already told Scott this story, but I love getting professional messages and get them all the time. Not long ago I had a guy massaging me and while doing show he lightly snapped the waistband of my underwear and said I shouldn't be shy. He did it a couple more times so I thought what the fuck and said ok and pulled them off. He massaged my butt and when I turned over he massaged my legs. I started to get hard and next thing I know he was lightly rubbing my dick. He kept asking "is this ok?" and I kept saying yes. He finally sucked my dick. As I said, I'ce been to a tons of professional massage therapists and that is the only time something Luke that happened to me.

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  27. I have had professional massages as well as massages by guys I've found online at sites like massagem4m.com. Sometimes I really just want a professional massage but worry about boning up. I'm getting more used to the idea that getting a hard-on is common, so that's cool. If a licensed dude touched me I'd probably be really turned on because I know that they're not supposed to do anything...or can they, as long as you're not asking directly?

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  28. Wowie kazowie! Without a doubt, these are the hottest comments I've ever read on this blog...and I've read them all :-)

    Rick in L.A.

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  29. Wowie ditto Rick. I'm 1 for 3 with straight friends. Funny how you can get into unexpected erotic circumstances just being guys. Nothing happened with the first two, though I wasn't going one millimeter past the okay point. Same with the third one, but I'll always remember when he said, "You can put it in if you want to." Whoa .... huh? I did, my first time. Once was enough for him, though he was fine with it; he stayed straight and has been for 38 years now. You just never know. Rick SEA

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  30. I have been a RMT for the past 20 years. When I first got into the business, the happy ending was very much taboo. I've noticed over the years it has become more and more acceptable and expected. It's not something I verbally offer but if an erection occurs on my table that obviously isnt going away, I handle it and get on with the rest of the massage. I have one client that averages two to three ejaculations during the course of it. It's just another type of release. Most of my clients are for the most part straight married men btw.

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  31. Anon 5-3-11. 8:23... Thank God it's becoming more acceptable! It IS another type of release of tension. It's true that men carry a lot of tension in that core area. Every time I get a massage I get a hard-on - doesn't matter if the dude has hit those trigger points or not - up it pops. My masseur does the same as you - he makes me cum, cleans me up, and goes on with the massage. And I always feel so relaxed when the massage is done - I walk out feeling like a million bucks! You can really tell the difference between a massage with and without that release.
    I'm really glad I was up front with him about getting boned during massages, 'cause when he turned me over and there it was... Well, he didn't make a big deal out of it; he kept on with the massage and when it became obvious it wasn't going to subside, he took it in both hands, massaged it and my balls in long, slow motions until I came. It wasn't a fast pumping to quickly bring me to orgasm - he treated it with gentle reverence. Now, he expects it to happen and always relieves the hard-on.

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  32. Uhh does chiropractor count? It felt okay, didnt do anything down there and ended up sending me to the hospital 3 hours later when my chest seized up from he doing 3 or 4 giant karate fists in between my shoulder blades to get my back to pop.

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  33. A Chiropractor is not a Massage Therapist. If you are getting massage at a Doctors office( Medical or Chiropractor) chances are you will not get any dick play.

    LMTs, DCs and MDs will not give any play to patients very readily. It can be loss of a license or career if someone doesn't like it. And everyone is looking to sue someone. If you want some dick play look online for M2M massage or something like that

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  34. A massage will often result in boners. Most "legit" LMTs will igonore them unless they think a guy is creepy. ( like moaning too much or making lewd comments)

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  35. Great topic. Have stories of my own as a straight guy. Good to see it may be more common than i thought.

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  36. I have recently started to get massagers from a guy that was recomended to me from a friend. I am in sales and you know the tension is great. I carry it in my neck and shoulders as well as my lower back. So, I made the apointment and met the guy. Seemed nice enough older guy in mid 50's pretty straight forward dude. We go to his studio and he shows me around nice place candles, waterfall, soft music and a heated table. He instructs me that I can be nude or drapped. I have always hated to wear clothes if I have the chance to be naked. I figure he's like my doctor and naked was my choice. He was very good at getting the knots out of my back and shoulders. I turned over on the table and up sprang my boner. He didn't say a word just kept rubbing my thigh and legs. My boner was throbbing and with every heartbeat it was moving. He said, "Don't be nervous it happens more then you think, would you like me to take care of that too?" I said, "Yea" with some reservation. He was very gentle and it was not like getting jerked off...it was a massage of my manhood. He cleaned me up and we went on our way. I have my 5th appointment with him tomorrow and I might get adventurous....we'll have to see.

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