So I told you guys that before I actaully tried anything with a guy I went to a leather store just to check things out and the guy there told me I could try things on (they had a dressing room). So I found a pic of the thing I tried on (minus the stuff on the legs and arms). I won't go into the whole story again, but if you ever get a chance to go to a leather store give it a try. Its a safe way to explore and it's really pretty wild to see yorself like that. Sorta like gay exhibitioinist halloween lol!