Here's something I don't think I've talked about before. Black guys and white guys. Or any race thing. I'll admit to being an ignorant asshole, but I'm not a racist kinda guy. So I'll tell you that my experince growing up is the fear parents had wasn't so much dating outside a race, but the thought of marrying outside the race ("what will Aunt Bessy do when she sees Ann walking down the isle with Jerome!"). So presuming nuptuals aren't as much a part of it in the gay community, and you already freaked your parents out by telling em yor gay, is there less of a stigma with men on men race crossing than there is with men and women race crossing? Oh ya one more thing. What's the attraction? Is it physical? Cultural? Penile?