Tuesday, June 7, 2011

New Territory

Here's something I don't think I've talked about before.  Black guys and white guys.  Or any race thing.  I'll admit to being an ignorant asshole, but I'm not a racist kinda guy.  So I'll tell you that my experince growing up is the fear parents had wasn't so much dating outside a race, but the thought of marrying outside the race ("what will Aunt Bessy do when she sees Ann walking down the isle with Jerome!").  So presuming nuptuals aren't as much a part of it in the gay community, and you already freaked your parents out by telling em yor gay, is there less of a stigma with men on men race crossing than there is with men and women race crossing?  Oh ya one more thing. What's the attraction? Is it physical? Cultural? Penile?

24 comments:

  1. First of all Scott thank you for taking on edgier issues than just jockstraps and blow jobs. That's why this is the first blog I read in the morning. I was with a black man once, purely a one nighter. But it was one of the most memorable of my life. I'm vers but that night I was 100% bottom and loved every inch...I mean minute!

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  2. I date men or women of any race that I find attractive either be it physically or their character traits that I like

    Society has come a ways, but there are sill many, that hole to the beliefs that interracial marriages are bad, and some still can't fathom, same sex marriages, and their attitudes might never change...SO BE IT.... I am still going to date a person that makes me feel good emotionally, physically, and spiritually..

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  3. The attraction is the same no matter what race or creed: nothing special.
    As to family, if they have issue with mixed race couples they are going to have issues with any long term mixed race partnerships, no mater what body parts are going where.
    As we have been telling you; we are just like you.

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  4. I'm a black male dating a white male. I have always been more attracted to white men, probably comes from growing up in private school, where I was usually the only black male in the class. We have been together for two years now and I believe he is the one. But I have also date black, Asian, white, and older (15 +). It is odd to say but I feel more comfortable and myself around white people. Plus white males seem to have the sexiest feet.

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  5. here that sfbarefeet, there you go.. I love sucking on a dudes toes, especially the big one.. Summer time is here, nothing sexier than a a dude with a nice masculine feet wearing black flip-flops, instant rod for me.. but have to admit I like men with size 10 to 14, and up, hell he can have a 5 inche cock, but I like the feet big..

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  6. Jon (a Canadian)June 7, 2011 at 12:22 PM

    Do I have something to add? Hmmm....My theory is that blacks are sometimes more attractive because they are different. Just like straights like girls because they are soft and round. Opposites attract! I also have a penis theory. Many blacks when they are flaccid don't lose the length like white guys do. Many white guys are growers. They look small when soft and grow up nicely when hard. Many blacks are intimidatingly long when soft but don't get much longer when hard. Both white and black have their huge and their small.

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  7. black man here. I havn't posted since the blog went down some time ago. I love black men, especially confident handsome black men.
    Nice feet are a plus also. Growing up I watch many white men on TV and loved seeing them half naked. Maybe because 99% of the men on Tv were white. But interest in white men came and went with me. But now at 50, I'm mostly attracted to whitem men. Sexy white men with sexy legs and feet. What the hell is it with me and white men feet? I don't know and sometimes I wish it would go away. I love the summer time and big legs and big feet. If someone knows where this comes from and how to deal with it, please let me know. I had sex with one white guy in the carribean and he was a grower. I'm a nice size but he was bigger than me. hummm That myth went out the window if you know what I'm talking about. Lately, I've thought about Craigslist to meet up with a sexy white jock with nice legs and sexy feet and toes to suck. Maybe I'm going thru a phase but who knows. I've met white guys who only date and have sex with black men. I like both but I think I need to scratch this itch I have. Forget to say I'm a top who love to see men legs up in the air, mostly white guys for now. Legs in the air and sucking on toes. What's wrong with me?......

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  8. I grew up in a predominately white beach community. White frat boys with blonde hair don't attract me so much. I'm drawn to olive or darker skin and dark hair.

    I've dated a Persian, a Peruvian, a Guatamalan, a Greek, Mexicans, a guy who's Spanish/Moroccan/Puerto Rican, a guy who's English and Italian and black guys. Oh..there was a Filipino too.

    I think it's the "different" factor that initially draws my attention, but it's always the man himself that seals the deal.

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  9. To anonymous at 1:22 pm, nothing wrong with you at all...In fact very hot indeed...you might have a foot fetish and then again you might just want to do it every not and then.. Oh yeah spread those white dudes hairy legs and give it to them "butt" good...lol...

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  10. anon 122 not only is there nothing wrong with you but i think i see a line white dudes forming with shoes coming off and legs flailing in the air lol

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  11. too funny Scott, while anonymous at 1:22 pm, its official, your just fine, no body's going to come and take you away in a "straight jacket", oh yeah white dudes rejoicing in the streets right now, as I write this... you can tell summer is here, clothes coming off, legs in the air, toes are a wiggling, there's a smell of manly musk in the air...

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  12. How did a question of inter-racial dating turn into a foot fetish?

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  13. Oh anonymous at 3:22 pm, you have a lot to learn about this site....stay for the ride!!!

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  14. For me, it's personality and looks -- not skin color or endowment. I like a hot bod & handsome face (not to mention boulder buns with dimples). And the eyes have to hold my attention. But if personality is lacking, I'm tossing him back. However shiny the penny, if attraction isn't both mutual and reciprocal, the effort to pocket it isn't worth the expended energy. ~ GaySatyr

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  15. yes, I love tree trunk thighs, boulder shoulders, tremendous traps, bulging bi's, terrific tri's, hairy hamstrings, perfect packages, beefy butts, bouncing balls, fantastic feet, perfect pits...

    I be back with more...

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  16. Here's something that surprised me about me. I was talking to a guy about photography. He's maybe 22. I looked down and saw his size eleven foot in those open toed sandals. His feet were clean and well groomed, and I thought, what it be like to suck on his toes. Never thought of that before, until I read this blog!!!!! Damn blog!!!!!! I think that I would give him a shot. The idea of someone getting that excited and blowing a load is now a turn on for me.
    Tootsie.

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  17. i see we're in fine form today SJ. :)
    cheers!

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  18. A beautiful masculine stud black or white gets my attention every time.

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  19. Back in my dating days or daze, I found a man of color more exotic because I didn't get to connect that way as often. I think they have more of a problem crossing the color line than we do. Given our history you'd think they'd want to fuck every white man they met, but their brothers frown on it.

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  20. I am in my 60s and I have NEVER had a problem with an interracial relationship. I also have never had one so this is purely philosophical. There was a time when I was open to a Black woman but I did not like the idea of mixed race children....an additional handicap in growing up. With a man, there will be no children so I am open to that...just hasn't happened yet.

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  21. first when it comes to issue of race and interracial dating why is that we only view that as black and white, secondly the issue comes with a western perception of issue that "white" is acceptable and the idea of "black" as a novelty, that is my take but remember there are many other spectrums in the rainbow...

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  22. I grew up in Tokyo and have once I came out in college here in the states, I've never really been attracted to Asian men. I'm slowly finding some that I do find attractive, but not as a rule. What I do find hot though? Frat boys, your typical American guy - mainly because I didn't grow up with that around. Also Indian/Pakistani men, or South American - men of a slightly different skin shade than I - even Italian... yum.

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  23. I'm white. You be black, white, red, yellow, I don't care. If you take care of yourself, I'll be more than happy to look at you twice. Just don't be grey. Dead guys turn me off.

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  24. I'm white...and I'm attracted to all races...I'm attracted to men that are athletic, masculine and confident. I've always sort of been a magnet for black men...I've got that blonde beach thing going for me...but what the black men love is my big bubble butt. I've been with the same guy for 16 years now (who happens to be black) and my family accepts him as part of the family. My great grandmother (she was 104 at the time she said this, but has since passed away), the first time she met my partner, asked me when I hired a driver. She was from Virginia, but no -- her name is not Miss Daisy. So my answer is...if you live in a major metropolitan city in a "Blue" state...it's fine. If you live in a "Red" state...you're fucked.

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