Monday, June 27, 2011

Power of Sex

Ok I’ll admit I was pretty stupid when I first started this blog.  I remember asking what it meant to be versatile.  I remember thinking that whoever had the biggest dick sorta ruled the relationship and was by default the top.  But you guys straighten me out.  One thing I had a hard time with is the power factor.  To me if you got a cock in a dudes mouth or his ass you got the power.  But one of the things about gay relationships is the power kinda teeter totters.  I still think an enormous turn on, at least for me, is standing there and watching a man feast on your cock.  Maybe I just haven’t had enough practice on the other end of the phone.  With women it’s not power.  Not sure why.  But with men, you just kinda expect men to be your peers sexually, not dominate over them. So when you do dominate them, dude, it’s a fuckin headrush!

16 comments:

  1. Scott,
    The next time tell the guy that you want to unbuckle him, unbutton him, and unzip him. Wait till you feel the rush of that one. You can also ask him to do the same to you.
    A guy on guy is like a well of energy. The unbuckling is the entranceway to that energy. The unbuttoning is the expectation of the energy. The unzipping is the dynamics that you will share!
    Ask yourself why guys workout together, shower together, steam together, and look at one another. Guys have that one on one universal energy!! Want!
    bj.

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  2. I hate pain, If I was ever brought down to a dungeon like this I would think I was not coming out alive. No one getting at my cock and balls like that, maybe I watch, the T.V. show " Criminal Minds" too much..

    Scott you can have it.

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  3. Headrush for sure man! At least that describes it for me.

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  4. Bondage and discipline don't have to be about pain. And often, it's the bottom (or the masochist) who holds the power. Every relationship is different. ~ GaySatyr

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  5. Hell I can't even watch a dude fisting another dude, I don't get S@M at all. I know I am in the minority but this pic is not for me. I guess different stokes for different folks, so I will respect your feelings on "the headrush" that you get from it.

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  6. The dominance that guys have wanted from me is not about restraint or harm, it's about me telling them exactly what I want them to do in a forceful voice. So slapping and slight physical action is part of the game, but it's mainly mental. Part of it is giving oneself over to another person for sexual pleasure.

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  7. Power and sex are both huge turn-ons 4me. It's the combustion in the middle of the two, that makes 4 the hottest session! Trust is probly the key to this kind of dominance. And I agree with Amtop its very mental, but also extremely physical. Very hot post Scott, sick pic dude.

    Ltr bro-

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  8. For those of you who have never encountered the kind of scene depicted in the image, that is the middle of a scene. It is not the whole scene. That photo is extremely deceptive. Power is shared and negotiated and can be very very emotional when you find your self released from those bonds. Domination and submission is not just about how much pain can be inflicted or endured. It is about understanding the limitations we all place our our sexuality and sexual experience.

    When you see images ripped from Bound Gods site, understand these men are performing ritualistic behavior. Isolated down to a visual misses the point entirely. Understand that the men who tie those ropes understand you don't cut off blood flow or oxygen to vital bits. Understand you don't leave people in extreme positions alone. Understand they don't always comply with requests that cross lines medically or psychologically. It looks visually far more dangerous than it actually is. That said, it is edge play and if you are not ready to play on that edge you shouldn't. Not because you would be unable to handle the pain. But because you would not be able to process it mentally. That is the real challenge.

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  9. As for fisting, any man or woman can take large objects up his or her ass. Nothing more than relaxation and practice and a desire. If you don't have those three issues sorted out you have no business considering fisting as part of you sexual experience. It is extreme. It is supposed to be extreme. If you don't understand the physical issues your body can tolerate and don't trust the person you choose to work your hole in a way that makes it a willing participant you should not be in a position to consider a fist in your ass.

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  10. very sick pic dude, gives me the freaking creeps, my cock is not anything to really brag about, but I am keeping what I have, with this pic the guy could lose his nuts.

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  11. Amen to that anonymous at 2:47 pm, no freaking fist going up my tight hairy hole.

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  12. Yes Anon at 3:06 but what you fail to understand is that your tight hairy hole will still be a tight hairy hole the next day when the right hand works your hole but your world will be expanded in ways you simply don't understand today. You may not want a hand to penetrate your senses but you can certainly accommodate it given time and experience.

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  13. Well dude, anonymous at 7:57 pm, with all due respect, never going to find out, I'll stick with a dude with a medium sized thick one..or use my 4 inch butt plug, I just am too friggin tight...

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  14. Well dude at 9:53... you simply don't understand the muscles inside your anal canal and you are unwilling to understand what it is capable of with regard to expansion.

    A medium size thick one is for all intents and purposes the size of the average wrist. A set of fingers is smaller than that wrist. A hand at its widest point is perhaps twice the size of the wrist and while you may never get fist punched with a closed hand hammered into your ass, I assure you your tight friggin hole is more than capable of accommodating a human hand.

    Ask any nurse in any emergency room. There is a procedure and it is quite common. Your brain controls those dual muscles that keep your ass clenched. So it is your brain that keeps you from enjoying monster cock, not your ass.

    It is your fear that keeps you friggin tight. Because you are unwilling to acknowledge you can doesn't mean your anatomy is any different than any other human. An ass is an ass so short of some odd bone structure any normal ass can accept any normal hand within reason.

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  15. hmmm, interesting, something about a wrist, fist, hand, is just not appealing to me at all, just like at Thanksgiving time when you have to shove you hand up the turkeys inside and take the shit out, but at least he's DEAD...so he's not feeling anything.

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  16. Anon at 12:48...
    Two people generally fist but some men can do themselves. They explore this fetish because a hand can massage parts of the inside of a rectum in a direct way that a cock can't. Clearly you have never had anything remotely close to prostate massage or a finger fuck that sends you over the edge. Men's sexuality is not entirely about a hard cock and a cum shot. It is vastly more interesting when you understand there is more to you than six or eight inches and spillage.

    And just so you're clear. You are supposed to feel something. That is the point of the entire function of cock, ass, cum, lips, spit, fingers, hands, tits, nipples, necks, buttocks, backs, feet and any other part far too numerous to mention. Don't fixate on what you are not yet interested in but you would be unwise to rule out what you have yet to experience. You don't know. You may never know and that is OK. Just don't judge those that do and have and don't assume yourself incapable of the same pleasure with the right man or woman. Fear and apprehension are completely appropriate until you meet him or her. Then I hope you are willing to explore all that you can do with all that you've been given.

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