Friday, June 24, 2011

You May Not Agree With Me, But We All Have To Learn Sometime

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  1. What am I not supposed to agree with?

    Oh wait. I think I get it: we have to learn about same-sex tendencies on our own, after learning that opposite-sex tendencies as the norm.

    Is that right?

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  2. I just like the pic, very hot! Have a chill weekend fellas. And thx 4 the recap Scott.

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  3. Wow, what a week, so much to think about, lots of discussion, all different kinds of viewpoints, strong opinions. This must be what it's like in congress!! Then, maybe, that makes Scott, president? (Maybe, not)
    Artful1

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  4. bloody smashing representation of you and your alter ego! the two faces of scott. ha!
    cheers!

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  5. Comparing US to Congress???? We are FAR more honest in our opinions and actions than those sleazebags!

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  6. Hey Guys,
    I have a question. Need some professional advice. There is a guy that I see every so often. He's in this late 30's and has a professional title. I see him about every six months. We sometimes get to talk and have some common interests. It so happens that when we are talking, our eyes just seem to lock. We are so focused on one another that it is an unreal experience. It's like there is nothing else around, just him and his eyes looking at mine. We are so focused on one another. The other day when I saw him, and our appt was coming to an end, he said, that he would like, one day to have a beer with me, as his secretary knocked and opened the door. It was like a major interruption. I think of this guy. He is something else, and I have a feeling that there is something cooking between us. Am I reading something into this that isn't there. What are your thoughts on this, please.
    Thanks!
    p.s. I am older that him.

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  7. I don't know what is there but it is obvious that he is scoping you out for friendship. You should hve a beer with him and develop the friendship. don't ruin a good friendship by hoping for more but plan ahead so you know how you want to react to different possibilities.Age is not a big deal unless one of you makes it so. It could be that he sees you as a mentor BUT I am 60 and my BF is 24.

    DP

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  8. BTW...NOTHING PROFESSIONAL ABOUT MY ADVICE!

    DP

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  9. Anon at 6:17: Man up and take the bull by the horns. Get in touch with him and tell him you'd like to get together for that beer he was mentioning just as you two got interrupted. Don't let life pass you by man! Getting together with him sounds infinitely more interesting than sitting at home wondering about him and what may or may not be transpiring. Let us know what happens, OK?

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  10. You may have discovered someone who could become a true friend. For the time being, don't discount any sexual feelings you might have for the man. But put those feelings on hold. Have that beer, pursue the friendship...a rare treasure to be sure.

    "On Friendship" by Kahlil Gibran

    Your friend is your needs answered.
    He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
    And he is your board and your fireside.
    For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.

    When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind, nor do you withhold the "ay."
    And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
    For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
    When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
    For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
    And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
    For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.

    And let your best be for your friend.
    If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.
    For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
    Seek him always with hours to live.
    For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
    And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
    For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.

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  11. rugbysex,
    That my good man is a beautiful poem. I will look Kahlil Gibran up on the internet and get a copy of that poem.
    This guy is something nice to look at, and smart. It is the second time that he mentioned that we should get together. When we speak, we are so focused on one another, that there is no one else around. It's quite a feeling. Such concentration. There's something else, he is nice to be with.
    Thanks.

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  12. IF he has suggested it twice, it is your turn to suggest it. If you don't he may feel that you are shooting him down....If he is nice to be with, have the beer and enjoy his company. You may have found a best bud.....and few men find those. After you spend more casual time with him in either your homes or in public places, You can deepen your friendship if you both wish. It may never turn sexual but then again.....Keep us posted!

    DP

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  13. LMFAO, love the Pic Scott, yup that's all you need, a hot guy across the street, some TP, some lotion, and your stiff prick and your ready to go...

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