Ok so this has all the makings of a “Pile On Scott” post but I’m going to go for it anyways. So one of the topics we sometimes brush up against is the issue of straight guys perspective on gay men. And I know some of you gay guys have been victimized by asshole straight guys. So let me give you my take on this. I honest don’t think it’s the sex. I’m serious. I don’t think most straight guys give a shit how you get off. I think the thing that makes some gay guys targets is the level of femininity (wow looks like that’s really a word!) that a guy carries himself. I think if a guy looks like a guy and acts like a guy no one cares what you do in your bedroom. I think it’s the guys who act more like your sister than your brother that are targets for getting picked on. So it’s not really “gay” bashing it’s feminine bashing. Straight guys jump in here if my head is completely up my ass.