Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Closing Time

So today’s my last blogging day.  No problems here. It’s all good.  Just time to move it on.  Family and work gotta come first.  If I don’t got that right I’m dumber than you guys think I am.  Cutting down on posts isn’t the answer.  Shutting bad boy down is.  So gonna close the day out with a few more posts and hang up my jock. As a lot of you know I been thinking about it for awhile actually.  Gonna miss it? Of course.  Gonna keep my email alive so you knuckheads can keep in touch.  What will I miss most? The Comments.  Definitely.  You guys have been a freakin blast.  Even when you kick my ass.  Just time to call it a day.


  1. thank you buddy...it's been a helluva ride.

    with love and affection,

    p.s. i finally learned to be brief. lol. :)

  2. Scott,

    You're a good guy. Best of luck.


  3. Scott I'll be brief too, I know you don't like the lovey dovey shit.. It's been great, I could have been one that gave you some shit, but all in all I have always supported you and enjoyed your blog so much.. So to quote rugbysex "with love and affection" thank-you..


  4. I will never learn to be brief, so you gotta suffer through this note.

    You're the best Scott. Honest, integrity, funny, big heart, and pretty smart considering you're a jock! You're gonna struggle with those bi/curious feelings and the inner conflict. But remember you are not alone. We're right there with you dude. We know how you feel. There is nothing wrong with you, you're lucky to be able to feel so much.

    Plesae keep keep your email open so we can ping you once in a while and vice versa. You're not just an invisible blogger on the internet. You're a great friend. We'll miss you bad dude.

    With brotherly love,

  5. As Bob Hope used to say (sing) at the end of each show... "thanks for the memories"

    You did good!

  6. Good luck. Thanks for the laughs and the thoughts.

  7. Scott,

    Nothing new to say. Others have said it already. We will miss you. Will you leave up these postings for a while? It has been a wonderful time.


  8. Scott: Your blog was a unique gathering place, so we bid you a fond farewell and wish you all the best.

  9. I will act as a clearinghouse for anybody who wants to stay in touch. e-mail me at SJTsurvivors@hotmail.com. I will not give out anybody's e-mail address unless both people request it.


  10. Scott,
    I'm glad that I met you on the internet, that time I was looking for a store. You replied and told me about your blog. It's been good. Learned a lot. Didn't know that there were so many guys out there dealing with all of what is going on in their lives. Sure did open my eyes. Thanks.
    Maybe one day we will meet. We are not that far apart.
    Tomorrow, I won't even bother turning on the computer.
    Stay well. Be safe and God Bless You.
    P.S. When I am out walking these mountain roads, I will think of you and the rest of the guys and chic, too.

  11. really have enjoyed your blog and will really miss it! here's to wishing you the best! -a dedidicated viewer from Austin- take care buddy!

  12. Hey Scott..I've offered it before, and the offer still stands If you ever want to guest blog on my blog, feel free to let me know.

  13. Thanks for the memories stud! I hope you swing by and say hi sometime...

  14. you were here after i broke my back...a rugger who would never play again.

    you were here as i jumped from bed to bed 70/30, str8/bi.

    you were here to amuse, abuse and support me thru hospitalization after hospitalization after hospitalization.

    you were here when i found the love of my life and my true identity.

    i don't know your name, your address, what you look like, what you do, who you really are. we've never had a beer or watched a game.

    so how can that be friendship? it just is! as deep a friendship as if we had known each other all our lives...because you were there when it counted.

    so "cheers" to you and to that friendship!

    ON FRIENDSHIP by Kahlil Gibran

    And a youth said, "Speak to us of Friendship."
    Your friend is your needs answered.
    He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
    And he is your board and your fireside.
    For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.
    When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind, nor do you withhold the "ay."
    And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
    For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
    When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
    For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
    And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
    For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.
    And let your best be for your friend.
    If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.
    For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
    Seek him always with hours to live.
    For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
    And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
    For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.

    pax tibi frater!

  15. Love you bro. Thanks for everything.

    -Paduder in Cali

  16. Hey Thanks...always fun to check in with you daily..keep the spirit alive, one way or another.

  17. Scott,
    I remember one time, when you shared about getting off in the shower. The next morning, when I awoke, I was thinking of you and being in the shower. I was in bed and something nice started to come up. Must say, I got off thinking about you. I imagine that others have too. You made more than one impressions.

  18. Thanks again for the great blog! Will miss you, but wish you the best of luck!

    cg (the original carrot guy).

  19. Not only will we miss your witty outlook on all things gay and sexual, but your blog also provided a useful link to those who were listed. So guys, make a note to follow my blog directly at http://hotbodz.blogspot.com as Scott is closing his link. And Scott, sorry to see you go, but do understand. So many guys are disappearing.. report back within the year and will be good to catch up. Dave

  20. Best of luck to you, Scott! May you fulfill your bucket list and may you and your family be blessed with much happiness. Thanks for the good times.

  21. Good luck man. I will miss your writing and insight. I too am a married bisexual guy and I can totally understand your position.

  22. What the Fuck!

    I go and tend the herd on their summer pastures (that is not a euphemism, got my cowboy on this summer), and you decide that it is time to move on. Well shit, I was looking forward to be judgmental on your ass all winter.

    I know you learned some thing about us over here on the dark side, and I learned that over-aged frat bois can actually change.

    Be well.


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  24. Good Luck Scott, thanks for the good read!

    Have fun and try not to be too shy!

    Take Care.

  25. Scott,
    from the gayeststraightguy to str8jock II., there never was a boring post. and honestly only one or two not-hot-as-hell pictures. Thank you for that, man. I wonder how you did it?
    All the best for the future, take care.

    PS: What about an anniversary post every year on sept. 20th?

  26. You will be missed. Nice getting to know ya.