Ok ya so I kissed a guy. And it was a pretty big deal. Its not like I was afraid to kiss a guy. I never had for the same reason I never ran a triathalon. It just didn’t interest me. But I met up with a guy who, idk, I just seemed to connect with. Like right from the start. I’m not gonna get into all kinds of detail right now. Maybe sometime later. But here’s the thing I want other curious guys to know. This is gonna sound weird. When you make out with a chick its like your doing it to get in her pants right? I mean not every chick you kiss you’re gonna poke. But be honest you’re hoping right? But now lets say you’re with a guy. And oh ya you’re both already naked so kissing isn’t gonna seal the deal. There’s no agenda. It happens. And man I’ll tell you it’s NOTHING like kissing a chick. There’s stubble. And the embrace feels TOTALLY different. I mean it’s almost like a whole different species. You break it off and at first you’re kinda like wtf? But it’s cool. Really cool. If I was a great scientist the kiss would have been the only thing different about the hook up. That way I could have known the impact of it after I left. But a lot more went on than that. I walked out thinking ok I hit the highwater mark on man to man sex (NO – we didn’t fuck). Like I said I’ll tell you more sometime. But I just wanted to let you know. Kissing a guy can be cool.