Friday, April 27, 2012

Have You Ever Chickend Out?

I reader sent me an email saying that he was out of town traveling and hooked up with a guy who was very close by.  They exchanged pix and emails and the guy came over. After a couple minutes the guy said “ya, I can’t do this” and left. I think the guy got cold feet.  Probably happens a lot. Especially if the guy is married. What do you guys think?

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  1. Yes - several times. Despite the fact that I live in one of the largest cities in the US, it's still a small world. I have a family and run a business and am involved in community projects. What if... I keep thinking. Yet, in my defense I seem to have come across some strange guys on CL. One who I think was certified. The other claiming he was so handsome and then when I say his pic he was just ...eh! Didn't get me hard. Anyway. to answer your question yes I have chickened out, but I don't regret it.

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  2. hmm, I find it the opposite, with the married guys, when they finally decide to make the plunge, they might be nervous as hell, but they have their "hard" cock out fast, they come fast and they are out fast..

    Nope I use CL alot, you have to know how weed the "liars out", not saying I haven't been fooled a few times, but all in all, they have been fairly decent good looking man, that are just looking for sex, and that's fine with me..

    Sorry to disappoint guys, but God bless CL.. for the "quickie"...

    SJ

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  3. I recently chickened out when I arived at a guys office and he looked nothing like his picture. I mean nothing! Sorry dude, gotta go.

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  4. I've "chickened out" when I met the guy and got an uncomfortable vibe from him. You've got to trust your instincts.

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  5. I went to a "Christian" college where there were lots of repressed guys, myself included, who wanted to experiment, either because the girls were off limits or because they had feelings they didn't want to admit to. So sometimes you'd get into these really intense conversations in your room or in theirs where you weren't sure what was developing and then either I or the other guy would break things off and leave in a hurry. But there were a few times when something did develop and you'd wind up pants down and jerking each other. My senior year my roommate and I really clicked and we had some great mutual naked masturbation sessions. Needless to say you'd get expelled or disciplined if the school found out so the trusts level had to be very high.

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    1. Curious - Are you still friends, married, etc. In other words did the friendship progress or remain. I mean on one level it's great that you clicked and shared some connections with each other that goes beyond the "norm" so to speak.

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    2. Well the sex part stopped after I graduated and moved away but we remained long distance friends. We both married women, mine was successful, his failed after a few years for non-sexual reasons. We were in college together in the late 70s and he passed away in the mid-90s (cancer).

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    3. That's too bad hopefully you are left with some fond memories of a good friend. Thanks for the reply.

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  6. Hell yeah...there have been times when my "spidey" sense went crazy. I've learned to listen to that, always....It can be a weird and dangerous place out there. Always pay attention to your gut

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  7. Yes, I have. But it wasn't because I chickened out, it was because something wasn't right...he wasn't who he said, or the bed looked like a crab breeding ground, or the 'spidey sense' as one reader put it, just kicked in.
    And, I never felt bad about leaving, or regretted it at all. Things happen.

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  8. This reminds me of the time a divorce guy was emailing me a lot. He was really curious and wanted to get sucked off. I had told him when he felt comfortable to let me know and I would host him. i had hosted other bi curious guys in the past. Well one day I got an email from him and he said I am on my way, I finally decided to try it. He was in his 30s, owned a business and had 2 daughters. He arrived at my place and went into the living room and sit in a lounge chair. We talk for awhile, him getting up his nerve I think, and finally I ask him if he was really serious and wanted a blow job, he said YES. So he laid back on the lounge, unzipped his pants, pulled them part way down, along with his underwear. Anyway, action progressed and I started sucking his cock. He was moaning and saying how good it felt to him. I continue sucking him until he blew his load. At that moment he was angry, really angry at me and started yelling real loud at what I had done to him. I was taken back with his reaction, How I dare to suck a married guy off, what would his daughter now think of him, he went on and on. He finally got dressed and left my house. I was like so blown with his reaction, since the email had went on for about a year and he made the decision, not me. I was sad that he downgraded me so. Anyway that was my last act with a bi curious guy. Never again.

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