Tuesday, April 24, 2012

What We Have In Common

I think we all like to work in our own comfort zone.  Whether are pants are on or off.  I remember one time going to a dudes place to get a blow job.  Before we got started he said “Just want to let you know I’m gay but I’m not out.”  I wasn’t sure what that had to do with the noble venture he was about to embark upon, but I think he was letting me know he wasn’t the type to do this then expect me to ask him to the movies to make out in the back row. I know when I first started doing stuff with guys it made me feel better if the other guy was curious too. No judgment on gay men. I think I just thought that I’d be more comfortable with a man who has the same basic sex interests as me. Now though I think it doesn’t matter. Sorta like if I’m gonna go to all the trouble to hook up with a man as long as he’s happy taking little Scottie in his mouth who the fuck am I to worry about what he does when my pants get pulled back up. 

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  1. i'd agree up to a point. if all ur interested in is playing w/ body parts or getting and/or receiving a particular sexual act then fine. but if you're having sex with another human being as a person(and that does NOT mean you're necessarily looking for a bf)then i think WHO and WHAT the person is...IS important. i don't define "sex" as just one particular act or acts, i define it as physically connecting w/ another person and that said...EVERYTHING about him may potentially heighten or diminish the experience.
    cheers!

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    1. same here, agree up to a point with Scott, and agree totally with rugby. and I also agree, with the others here that said, along the lines, that labels should not define who you are.

      -Tapper

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  2. I love your line, "The noble venture that he was about to embark upon."
    I will have to keep that in mind.
    bj

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  3. I agree with you about the idea about 'curious' guys want to stay in their 'comfort zone'. It also has to do with labeling. Most curious/bi guys, I've found, will do mental gymnastics to keep from being labeled 'gay'. Even though they are having man to man contact - they can't think of it as 'gay'. I'm not sure why, but getting their dick sucked or sucking a dick automatically means that they have to show up at the next pride parade in daisy dukes with pierced nipples and a rainbow boa. Really not sure where this idea comes from, but it is out there.

    I also think that there is the pervasive fear (and totally irrational one) that you will get AIDs from even being naked in a room with a GAY man. How often do you post about where little Scottie has been (or would like to be) and at least 1 guy post how you are going to take some disease back to your wife and family? The risk is there - and so would it be with any random hook up with man, women, small furry animal.

    When you get over the fear of labels you can reach the point that it is just sex and that doesn't define you.

    Mark from Pittsburgh

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    1. Mark I so agree with your statement. Labels become irrelavent; yet we live in a label crazy society (Democrat/Republican, Christian/Jew, Gay/Dtraight, etc.) BTW Mark I'm originally from PGH now living in PHL.

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    2. I agree about the "curious" guy wanting to stay in his comfort zone but it's also about WHO the "curious" guy is and what other commitments he's made. For a single guy, how he defines himself is far less important than for a married guy who has chosen the path he intends to pursue. Unless, that is, he intends to make fundamental changes......

      Playing with definitions can be much more than mere semantics when there are kids that still need to be raised and house payments still needing to be made. In a perfect world it wouldn't matter but not many of us live in a perfect world
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    3. Hey Ward! You should come back to the Burgh. Where in Philly. I'm from the East Burbs.

      Mark from Pittsburgh

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    4. East burbs as well - Monroeville

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    5. Ward, I'm thinking your
      http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kwsbTxdYl24/T3kTt7t2hFI/AAAAAAAAAA0/4G1uGRYGZls/s220-h/tumblr_m0kjunO4gV1r8pwtmo1_400.png is mighty fine real estate! Thanks for the showing! Thanks! Bill

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    6. Ward, one~huge fetishist indeed afficionado here! would so like to have an e-mail look at your upwards curving member, please?! I'm billywm02@aol.com

      Thanks!

      Bill :)

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  4. I agree... "labels" mean nothing. When I hook up, it's more about the connection... and the fact that you let me milk your little man dry :) I'm hoping to help you out someday Scott...

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  5. No, Scott the dude was most likely (unless I read it fast), gay, but not out to the "general public" so yes he's attracted to men, but probably didn't know if you were out, out, so he was just trying to be polite, and say, dude let's get it on, but don't tell go announcing it around town, just like you wouldn't, want him to say anything.

    I consider myslef half in, half out, I live in a smll town, (not very gay frinedly), so I do men, I do alot of men (no new news here), but I don't announce it to every TOM, DICK, and Harry. I should stand up for myself and come all the way out, but not there yet

    SJ

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  6. Yeah there is this guy in my area, who is constantly posting that he wants to lick ass and suck dick, but not gay guys. I mean it's on thing to be closeted, but who do you think you're fooling when you are posting online multiple times a week looking for dick and ass to suck.

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  7. This just shows how much more relaxed you are about your own sexuality these days. You no longer feel the need always to be looking over your shoulder at how people might label you; gay, straight, bi, curious etc. If you're in the mood to have a guy suck your cock, just go for it and enjoy. The only person who can really understand your sexuality is you; and even you might not get to the bottom of it.

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    1. I agree with anon 10:55. When I became more relaxed about my sexuality I became less concerned with labels and less paranoid!

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  8. Just good to hear from you Scott, and you another guys (and chick sometimes)! I miss this round table of ideas!!!!

    ...Bruce from LA.

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  9. I did my grad work in Durham. Two nights before every home game one of the lax players would come over for a blow job. Said it cleared his head. Had a small cock but shot out the most incredible load I ever saw. He just needed a place to relax and be himself.

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    1. So, "lax" means "lacrosse"! I've learned a new expression! Thanks!& "Durham" denotes "Duke"?

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  10. I think straight guys need to be led. Kind of like puppies. Often they're nervous. I always thought they just wanted head, but I was surprised how many of the actually wanted to suck MY dick.

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  11. I don't have a comment specific to this topic, I'm just excited that Scott and Little Scottie are continuing to post!

    Keep up the good work Scott,
    Joe

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  12. A straight man grooving on having sex with another man. Wow! How civilized, how cool! I~a totally gay man~have just now bumped into your blog, & it's a 100% keeper, Scott! Thanks! You're d mn!

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  14. I am in very bad mood today, my Bruins lost, so I am sucking "straight" cock all day, and eating out some hairy beefy hole, that makes me very happy.. Sorry Jared at April 24 10:35 am, Me like the straight meat..

    SJ

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  15. And, everyone, have a good horny weekend.
    It is going to be very cold, so get someone very close and hopefully very horny next to you in one way or the other.

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  16. Where did eveeryone gooooooooooooooooooo??????

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    1. Didn't you hear I set up a Gh for all you horny dudes, and there is a line from here to "Straightsville"..

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  17. So glad to have you back! Just came across your blog again and wondered if you had written lately. To my surprise you have! I missed you and am so happy you are writing again! Welcome home! Eric

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    1. He's back and we love him!

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    2. but he ain't horny, eric

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    3. Scott not horny, my ass, he's been spotted humping every tree in Central Park, already this morning, and just wait till tonight!!!! He's still as horny as a sex crazed dog.

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  18. Scott's the horniest guy I know!

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  19. No guys, Scott's all set for a few day's, don't you remember every Saturday night it's "SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE" at his house about 10 pm, the fireworks began way before SNL comes on TV, he won't be horny now till Wednesday, o.k. maybe Tuesday.

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